How can i get my husband to give me the same attention he did when we were dating?

This is something that is very common. People get married and settled in with daily routines. Have you tried explaining to him how you feel? Would he listen? What happens here is one partner gives and gives and finally gets to the point of feeling why put in the effort. Maybe try a weekend get away. Reminisce about things. Being able to discuss things and having someone be receptive is very important.