I think i hate her? (mom)?

Alright i don't hate I might dislike her though. She always overreacts at everything, she labels people, a hypocrite, she lies a lot, she has meltdowns over everything that doesn't go her way. She always scares my friends away if she doesn't like them. She gets bitchy easy. When you try to speak your opinion it can not be right. She makes me scared when i am around her for i don't know what's write from wrong in her mind. She thinks she knows me, and when i try to show her myself, she changes me. She is not their for me and always has cared more for my brother then me. (people notice) She cares about me, like my health, but I don't like her, she barges in on everthing and makes all matters worse. please help me what should I do for i can't talk to her about this, and my dad is braindead and doesn't have a clue. I think I dislike her? i don't have many friends because of her, for she always can't get along with their parents or something. But I do have about 7 friends, WHAT DO I DO!!